ok , i am a noob , new to linux , new to backtrack and new to kali , no biting please because every time i post something an admin bites me and says am a noob ! i hope this thread is finally a valid one:
without getting so much in technical details , i tried every tutorial out there on updating the graphics driver for kali linux and debian wheezy , got it from the backports and did every update i can think of or find online but still , the driver wont update and can't run any program requiring graphic acceleration on the system.....and here what i was able to get :

the Xorg.O.log :
" 23.304] (II) intel: Driver for Intel Integrated Graphics Chipsets: i810,
i810-dc100, i810e, i815, i830M, 845G, 854, 852GM/855GM, 865G, 915G,
E7221 (i915), 915GM, 945G, 945GM, 945GME, Pineview GM, Pineview G,
965G, G35, 965Q, 946GZ, 965GM, 965GME/GLE, G33, Q35, Q33, GM45,
4 Series, G45/G43, Q45/Q43, G41, B43, B43, Clarkdale, Arrandale,
Sandybridge Desktop (GT1), Sandybridge Desktop (GT2),
Sandybridge Desktop (GT2+), Sandybridge Mobile (GT1),
Sandybridge Mobile (GT2), Sandybridge Mobile (GT2+),
Sandybridge Server, Ivybridge Mobile (GT1), Ivybridge Mobile (GT2),
Ivybridge Desktop (GT1), Ivybridge Desktop (GT2), Ivybridge Server,
Ivybridge Server (GT2)
[ 23.305] (II) VESA: driver for VESA chipsets: vesa
[ 23.305] (II) FBDEV: driver for framebuffer: fbdev
[ 23.305] (++) using VT number 7 "

" 23.350] (II) intel(0): Creating default Display subsection in Screen section
"Default Screen Section" for depth/fbbpp 24/32
[ 23.350] (==) intel(0): Depth 24, (--) framebuffer bpp 32
[ 23.350] (==) intel(0): RGB weight 888
[ 23.350] (==) intel(0): Default visual is TrueColor
[ 23.350] (II) intel(0): Integrated Graphics Chipset: Intel(R) Sandybridge Mobile (GT2)
[ 23.350] (--) intel(0): Chipset: "Sandybridge Mobile (GT2)"
[ 23.350] (**) intel(0): Relaxed fencing enabled
[ 23.350] (**) intel(0): Wait on SwapBuffers? enabled
[ 23.350] (**) intel(0): Triple buffering? enabled
[ 23.350] (**) intel(0): Framebuffer tiled
[ 23.350] (**) intel(0): Pixmaps tiled
[ 23.350] (**) intel(0): 3D buffers tiled
[ 23.378] (**) intel(0): SwapBuffers wait enabled"
dpkg -l | grep video-intel
ii xserver-xorg-video-intel 2:2.19.0-6 amd64 X.Org X server -- Intel i8xx, i9xx display driver
dpkg -l | grep glx
ii libgl1-mesa-glx:amd64 8.0.5-4+deb7u2 amd64 free implementation of the OpenGL API -- GLX runtime
ii libgl1-mesa-glx:i386 8.0.5-4+deb7u2 i386 free implementation of the OpenGL API -- GLX runtime
ii libswt-glx-gtk-3-jni 3.8.0~rc4-1 amd64 Standard Widget Toolkit for GTK+ GLX JNI library
ii libxcb-glx0:amd64 1.8.1-2+deb7u1 amd64 X C Binding, glx extension
ii libxcb-glx0:i386 1.8.1-2+deb7u1 i386 X C Binding, glx extension
apt-get install -t wheezy-backports libgl1-mesa-dri libgl1-mesa-glx
Reading package lists... Done
Building dependency tree
Reading state information... Done
libgl1-mesa-dri is already the newest version.
libgl1-mesa-glx is already the newest version.
0 upgraded, 0 newly installed, 0 to remove and 110 not upgraded.
and the chrome://gpu/
Graphics Feature Status
Canvas: Software only, hardware acceleration unavailable
Compositing: Hardware accelerated
3D CSS: Hardware accelerated
CSS Animation: Accelerated
WebGL: Hardware accelerated
WebGL multisampling: Hardware accelerated
Flash 3D: Hardware accelerated
Flash Stage3D: Unavailable. Hardware acceleration unavailable
Flash Stage3D Baseline profile: Unavailable. Hardware acceleration unavailable
Texture Sharing: Hardware accelerated
Video Decode: Software only, hardware acceleration unavailable
Video: Hardware accelerated
Problems Detected
Accelerated 2d canvas is unstable in Linux at the moment.
Stage3D is not supported on Linux.: 129848
Accelerated video decode is unavailable on Mac and Linux.: 137247, 133828
Force compositing mode is off, either disabled at the command line or not supported by the current system.
Driver Bug Workarounds

is there a way to make Kali recognize my intel hd 3000 chip and act as if i have a gpu ??