http://hashcat.net/oclhashcat/
I'm completely stupid apparently when it comes to Linux. I tried using the info from the website i listed in my first post, but I still got stuck on step 8 with the same problem. I also tried downloading the file from hashcat website, but it came in a folder and I had no clue how to install it. IDK how to change or install files without some sort of tutorial or someone telling me how to do it, I got tired of windows, and I didn't care for Ubuntu, but I absolutely LOVE Kali - I just wish I knew how to use it. The only downside is whenever I try to find a "How To" video - it ALWAYS has to do with hacking, not installing, not navigating, JUST HACKING lol. I admit, I love the Kali platform because I've aspired to learn the ways of a pentester, and I started learning different languages on PC. To many times have I seen that a Unix platform was the way to go when learning programing and markup languages, especially for what I want to use them for hopefully in the future.
BACK TO THE PROBLEM!
But yeah, when I downloaded oclHashcat through the terminal, it vanished, I couldnt find it anywhere; root, downloads, apt, desktop, etc.etc.etc. It is VERY frustrating to not be able to install a program on a computer when I haven't had that problem in 10 years (because so adept with a PC).