used the following commands it works now BUT both network cards turn on the alfa and my bulit in athros when i turn off the pci card the usb goes off too. also i try to put the alfa into mode monitor and system says
root@hd:~# ifconfig wlan1 down
root@hd:~# iwconfig wlan1 mode monitor
Error for wireless request "Set Mode" (8B06) :
SET failed on device wlan1 ; Invalid argument.

heres how i installed the driver AFTER reinstalling Kali fresh
apt-get install -y linux-headers-$(uname -r)
git clone https://github.com/abperiasamy/rtl88...21AU_linux.git
cd rtl8812AU_8821AU_linux
make
sudo make install
sudo modprobe 8812au